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this is so amazing. to be honest i didn’t even know cruising was something that any trans men did until i read this and another irresistible damage article where someone talked about it. its so exciting and quite healing to get confirmation that a lot of gay men find trans guys like me very desirable, and there’s hope for me yet. when i started transition so many people asked me how i would ever find a boyfriend and who would ever wanna have sex with me. theres this endless assumption that no man would ever find transmascs attractive, and its frustrating as fuck. so reading anything at all that pushes back against that assumption is a true gift to me

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This really hits at a lot of things I've felt myself.

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